How To Make Long Distance Love Work
Trust is the key to make a long distance relationship work. You can’t see each other every day, you must trust each other that you really want to be in the relationship. Remind yourself often that you are still in the relationship. You can’t see each other every day doesn’t mean you are not in the relationship now.
Communicate with each other as frequently as possible. This doesn’t mean all have to be in formal communication. A short phone call about how you spend the weekend is good.
Give each other a surprise is a simple ways to bring smile and feel of love. It doesn’t matter how far away you are. When I talk about this I have to tell about my friend Linda and her husband. Linda’s husband is a business man, he travels a lot for business. So they don’t see each other very often. One day Linda received a package as surprise. She opened it and found it’s a laptop her husband bought for her to let her work on her academic study. I could see love light in Linda’s eyes every time when she mentioned this laptop. Well, I’m not saying you also have to send your partner a laptop. You can send him a gift or something meaningful.
Don’t let anyone involved
When you are in a long distance relationship you need to be willing to make more effort to maintain it. It’s harder to do it, but you need to do it if you want to make a long distance relationship work. Stay in focus and don’t let anything or anyone to get involved in. It’s easy to get other people involved for a long distance relationship.
Find something you can do together
It used to be very difficult for couples to find something to do together in a long distance relationship. With the internet now, it’s easy to do it. For example, you can find some games that you both can play together online. There are a lot of games allow multi players to join.
One of the hardest parts to make a long distance relationship work is when one person is busier than the other. One person has less time to communicate with the other one. When your partner is getting very busy you should try to be flexible. Life is not only about the love relationship. There are a lot more things you can do, like pick up a new hobby, learn something that your partners like and you can do together when you meet. When you get busy try to inform your partner ahead, don’t wait until he calls to tell him you are busy. It makes your partners think that you are giving him excuses.
Be honest, you really have to do a lot more work on how to make a long distance relationship work. But it worth all when it’s working out.